Bathroom Bonding: We need more drunk bathroom energy in our daily lives

There’s truly no better example of a girl’s girl than when you cross paths with a drunk girl in the women’s bathroom. In that magical moment, you won’t find anyone more kind, sincere, or supportive. The bathroom drunkies—aka the powder room hype women—are the epitome of camaraderie and sisterhood. The second you step into the ladies’ room, they rise to the occasion with compliments, solidarity, and, of course, some unsolicited but well-meaning advice. There’s honestly something admirable about how drunk women come together in the restroom, transforming it into a confessional and forming instant bonds and creating this weird but wonderful sense of security. The positive energy that radiates from these encounters is pure girlhood at its finest, and we could all learn a thing or two from these tipsy encounters. If we could bottle up just a fraction of that bathroom vibe and sprinkle it into everyday life, the world would be a better place.

Now, imagine you’re having one of those days—you feel like a mess, and it seems like the whole world is conspiring against you. But the moment you step into that bathroom and are greeted by a fellow bathroom comrade, you’re instantly met with a wave of kind words and support that wash away your insecurities and turn things around. If we treated each other in the real world the way those tipsy bathroom hype women do, we’d be living in a much happier place (or at least a much friendlier girl world). I’m a firm believer that women should be lifting each other up, not tearing each other down—because, at the end of the day, we’re all in this together. If we all channeled that late-night bathroom energy into our everyday lives, it could be game changing and aid in building a stronger, more supportive community.

Every interaction has the power to change the course of your day, and even your mindset. By spreading the same upbeat, positive energy from those bathroom encounters, we’re creating a ripple effect—not just for ourselves, but for everyone we come across. It often feels like we as women are inadvertently quick to judge each other without even giving one another a chance. It’s happened to all of us before, you flash a friendly smile and either get ignored or worse, hit with a dirty look. Yet, in the bathroom, you could walk in alone and come out with new friends—and that’s without even trying.

So, why is it easier to smile and connect in a crowded bathroom than on a busy street? And why do we need a few cocktails and a bathroom break to feel brave enough to connect with each other? We shouldn’t need alcohol to find that kind of bond. How are we supposed to build real-world friendships if we only make them when we’re too tipsy to remember?

And let’s be honest—many of us (myself included) give off some serious RBF (Resting Bitch Face) without realizing it. But I think we all need to take a page from the bathroom girlies and go for it. When it comes to connecting with each other, we have to stop jumping to conclusions based on a look or a vibe and just make that connection.

The truth is, we’re all living a little on edge these days, wary of one another, and that attitude is part of what holds us back from forming real connections and long-lasting friendships. But if we could channel even a bit of that tipsy bathroom energy into our daily lives, the world would feel more open and a lot more supportive. It’s not just about making friends—it’s about building community and changing the way we interact with one another. We all want to be treated with kindness and respect, and let’s be honest, we all love the little confidence boost that comes from a random compliment or some heartfelt support.

If every day felt like a late-night bathroom encounter, we’d be walking around with way more confidence and appreciation for each other—and who wouldn’t want that?

What’s your take on drunk bathroom encounters and the connections made in those moments? I’d love to hear your thoughts and experiences!